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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 04:48

How does one succeed in life?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Ask yourself:

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What I need from you?

Hangs out with loser friends.

I’m a 25 year old teacher teaching at boys school & I have colleagues younger than me. I caught one of my students telling her he wanted her as his teacher instead & it hurt my feelings. They compliment her a lot. It makes me jealous. What do I do?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Procrastinates a lot.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Is it possible to make cars that run on water instead of gasoline or other fossil fuels? Why haven't we done so yet?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?